Duncan Roy has been writing and directing films for over a decade, beginning as a student at Bournemouth University‘s Poole School of Film and Television in the UK. Prior to becoming a filmmaker, he had already established himself in London as a successful producer of theater, writing and directing such plays as PORNOGRAPHY: A SPECTACLE (with Neil Bartlett), THE HOST, BAD BABY, THE BARON IN THE TREES, and CALL ME SUSAN.
Roy made his feature directorial debut at the 2003 Sundance Film Festival with AKA, an autobiographical account of his experience infiltrating London’s high society in the 1970′s. AKA played at numerous international film festivals, garnering many awards and a BAFTA nomination for the Carl Foreman Award for Most Promising Newcomer. Roy followed AKA with METHOD in 2004, starring Jeremy Sisto and Elizabeth Hurley, and THE PICTURE OF DORIAN GRAY in 2006, a modern-day interpretation of Oscar Wilde’s classic horror novel.
Other films include: Clancy’s Kitchen and Jackson: My Life, Your Fault.
In 2009, Roy’s career took an unexpected turn when he joined the cast of SEX REHAB WITH DR. DREW on VH1, making for a most unlikely reality show participant. His blog, which follows his personal experience living in LA, receives an enormous amount of hits daily, and in 2010 was praised by Roger Ebert as “a moving and evocative chronicle of modern gay life.”
Roy has also written for numerous publications, including The Sunday Times, The Evening Standard, The Sydney Morning Herald, The Guardian, and The Daily Beast.
He is currently finishing his first novel, The Book of Resentments which will be published Spring 2014.
Duncan Roy lives in Malibu.
WOW love your blog
I just want to say that no one should have to die when they are 2-years old like you did. This is the saddest story I have ever heard and it literally sickens me. It seems to me you should have turned out to be a killer or rapist or something really horrible and I am amazed that you are somewhat normal and that you even lived through such horrifying abuse. I just want you to know that you are a hero and show the power of the human spirit to rise above the worst possible circumstances. It makes me weep to think of your horrible abuse as a baby and child and I just want to say God Bless You, you are a great person!.
Duncan,
Nice blog…you’re hot…post pictures please?
Duncan,
Kudos to you for appearing on the show to address the childhood incidents that have greatly affected your life. I had never heard of you prior to watching the show, and I’ll follow your work from now on as a result…
Cheers!
Millard
Duncan,
Last evening I caught my first episode of Sex Addiction (day 3). As a fellow gay man: Props on being an out man with not coming off like some drama priss stereotype. Best of luck with your recovery.
Do you mind telling me who made those great shades you were wearing? (the pair with the silver metal on the corners and arms?) I’m a sucker for killer frames.
eyewear addict,
-J
Duncan,
I have been watching Sex Rehab since the beginning and have an enormous amount of respect for you. I have spent my fair share of time in the therapist’s office and I am impressed by your honesty and willingness to do the work. Your emotional response to what the people around you are going through also speaks to the strength of your character.
I got sober at 30 (almost 3 yrs ago) from drugs and alcohol. The 12 steps and the fellowship have given me a life I never thought I deserved. I continue to work hard on my sobriety and have recently begun addressing the questions I have about my own sexual abuse as a child. Watching you gives me strength and I thank you for that. I hope you continue to do the work and reap the benefits from it. Thank you again for the support you have unknowingly given me.
-Jessica
Hi Duncan,
First, let me say thank you for sharing your journey through the show. I didn’t even know who you were before the show…and now I’ve found this really insightful, intelligent and wounded person who’s very brave and very open.
I’ve posted on the show’s website…and I said that I feel, there are three people who are going to do really well right after the process…those people are…Jen, Phil and Amber.
I didn’t include you because I feel like there is a great deal of things that you have to work through…but…having said that…I honestly and openly say that you are going to make it out the other end to be a very happy person.
Now,…I’ll be honest…part of me, the straight part, wants Jen to make it because I am so totally enamoured with her. She is so increadibly beautiful; her eyes and her nose are absolutely…perfect! And, she’s intelligent and insightful too…she’s empathic and thoughtful…wow…you are a lucky person to befriend someone so special.
Don’t get me wrong…I’m an old fart…(40) so I have no aspirations to meet her…but I can really appreciate a young human being who has such great potential.
Which is a great segue to my next point…you have great potential too and I really look forward to seeing you succeed on the show and later…in your life.
I’ve posted this before on the show’s website…I think Phil would be a great guy to hang out with because he seems to have such a great way to empathize and communicate with other people…
You would be the kind of guy that I’d like to hang out with too…there’s so much that I could learn from you…just about humanity, and your thoughts…you’re a really smart guy and it would be fun to hear your stories. (sorry…I’m straight…but that doesn’t mean I don’t appreciate my gay friends…because I do)
If I found a woman like Jen my own age…I’d probably make a complete ass out of myself…just oggling at her eyes. (I’d become that 14 year old kid that lives inside of me!)
If I met Dr. Drew…I’d ask him the secret to staying sane after having triplets…after listening to LoveLine…his home sounded like “The Lord of the Flies” I have one Son and it’s driving me insane…but I wouldn’t trade it for the world. I’d probably also ask him to set up a meeting with Adam Carolla…it’s a LoveLine thing.
Be well Duncan and please…your comments, criticisms, blasphamies and otherwise are very welcome.
Cheers,
Andy
Just finished reading all of your posts-I knew there was a reason you’re my favorite one on the show:)
Thanks loyal readers! I love that you spend time reading my blog.
xx
Duncan: Don’t know if you have the time to read all of our replies; and haven’t had the time to notice if other bloggers echo this: just wanted to let you know I have been listening to Sex Rehab cast appearances on Loveline, Dr. Drew’s comments, and your blog. I have been piecing together a more complete story of Sex Rehab, so I’m sure others have too. I understand you felt misrepresented. However, please know, the power of your story came through nonetheless. There was too much focus on the incendiary events – the stuff of reality TV — but it’s obvious to me you all did a lot of really important work. I imagine that, despite the misleading aspects, you you did way more good being on the show than not. I can’t help but think it will pack a 1-2 punch in the world by helping your career and encouraging trauma survivors and sex addicts. I’ve never seen a more appealing group of people – intelligent, talented, funny, kind. You somehow managed to — all at the same time — make us laugh, speak eloquently of your pain, charm us with your wit, and move us deeply. Thank you.
Hi Duncan,
Hope you read this – wasn’t sure how to contact you?
Anyhoo, your last few posts have been password protected. *sad face* Does this mean that only your closest friends can read this?
I’ve searched on your site on how to become a member – have obviously subscribed to your blog & to WordPress, but not sure if I’m having a dumb “I.T” moment!
Would be grateful for clarification.
Thanks & take care.
don’t worry. all will be revealed in good time. xx
Duncan, As a dog lover who has also lost a true best friend, and suffered the pain, let me share that you are not alone in the gut pounding lose. I still, years later, shed tears over my Bear, and don’t feel you are strange for this experience. The love you had with the Big Dog was pure, and good, and I believe dogs are true guardian angels that come to us for protection and love.
If no one has shared the story of the Rainbow Bridge with you, do look it up on the web site, for it helps me tremendously.
The rainbow bridge is in heaven, where all the animals we love are sitting by it patiently on the other side, waiting to walk side by side with you forever.
If you close your eyes, you can see her there, tail wagging, healthy and happy, and if you touch your heart, you can feel her deep love for you.
Another angel will find you, and it will be a dog who needs you terribly, and you can love another dog one day. My Mickey, who is a rescue, was thrown out of a car window, and this little Maltese with a very crooked smile, is the greatest love in my life right now.
I am so proud of you, and for your strength to share your life.
You are very wise, and sensitive, and the show has been very healing for me to watch, as a cancer survivor, I feel so alone at times, and the show gives very real human emotions, and shows sides we all hide, while always wanting to show the perfect image.
I am a writer, a classical clarinetist, with a proud Masters from Northwestern, and now am embarking on a voice over career, so as an artist, can tell you, you do have a new friend in me!
I needlepoint, do tapestry, paint, like Jennie, to get away, and used to knit, so perhaps you would also enjoy a small needlepoint piece. The focus on color has proven to be very calming to the eyes, and also calms and focuses thoughts.
I am a hugh devotee to the theatre, and am writing my fathers tremendous biography.
If you need a film project, I need someone to help.
Yes, I am female, not gay, but a compassionate artist, who simply wishes to share these thoughts, and thank you yet again for touching my soul.
Please remain on a great path, and know, that you did indeed touch many lives positively!
Can’t anyone help poor,annoying Kari Ann? I am so worried about her, frightened of her, and feel, as you do, that her end is near with her dangerous lifestyle. It is sadder still that no one can help the poor thing.
Carry on, and all my best. Sincerely, Lindsay
Duncan,
You have a refreshing voice in this world of introspection and healing through blogging. I admire your honesty regarding sexuality and sexual orientation. I don’t find many that are as willing to soldier on with such controversial views. Keep writing what you feel to be true and you’ll have an audience.
Best,
Autumn
Duncan,
You are my favorite on the show ~ Realism held my interest!!!
I hope you can put the past in its place…. Make room for the rewarding future you deserve…
Surround yourself with quality not quantity… Tell yourself you deserve all the positive aspects of your life!!
God bless you & all your loved ones!!
I am proud of you!
Allison
Winter PArk Fl.
Hello Duncan,
I’m SO glad that you chose to be a part of the show. I remember the look on your face when you had the epiphany that every time you acted out, you put your “little boy” self through the trauma once again. What a huge thing to share, and I related directly with that epiphany. Your experience helped me to deal with a period of my own life, when I was (I now see) reliving a tragic event over and over. You really helped me, Duncan Roy. You have undoubtedly helped many people by your bravery in exploring your personal struggles. So thank you.
I’m very sorry to hear about your dog, and so happy Luna came to you at what sounds like just the right time for both of you. You have a long and beautiful life ahead of you, you’re brilliant, handsome, and talented so in the future I expect to hear that you are doing wonderful things that feed your soul, and give us all a chance to share and learn from you as well. Wish I could hug you. ~Debra
Hi Mr. Duncan. I think you’re so brave. I’m gay and I was sexually and phsically abused also. I was so moved when you shared your thoughts on the show. I had the same epiphany that you did when you were talking with Dr. Sealy. I’ve always felt that the gay community doesn’t want to talk about sexual abuse. I also agree with your assessment of Oprah Winfrey and your views on racism in the gay community. I wish I lived in California; I would like to be your friend. Write me at sayapollonia@yahoo.com if you feel inclined. Thanks for your courage, Che Coker
Duncan my dear, if you’re ever in Boston please look me up. I’d love to treat you to my fabulous manicure and pedicure as a thanks for your courage and willngness to share yourself. This isn’t an add because the services would be a gift. www dot wetpaintnailspa dot com
xoxo
Michelle
Duncan, you are amazing and I grew to respect and admire you with every episode. My heart went out to you and I cried when you cried. Best of luck! All of my best, Julie
I just read your article on The Daily Beast and honestly I was surprised at how intelligent and well-written it was! You kept my attention the whole time and after perusing your blog I see that you have a real talent for story-telling. Everything you said about the Sex Rehab show were my sentiments exactly and I’m so happy to hear that you are saying what everyone else has been thinking and too chickenshit to say.
Cheers to being true to yourself and I can’t imagine a better way to recover from trauma and addiction. Well done.
I just saw your film, “AKA,” and amused how you were able to make such an inspirational film despite it being a no-budget film. (If only I could intern for your creative endeavors, I’d be the happiest student ever!)
you are not defined by your childhood. as a child, nothing around you is a result from anything thats you. honest reflection takes strength . you have more than most as you are today, evolve your heritage. same family tree, new higher branch. thrive.
David Weintraub is A pimp ass piece of shit con man, he manages strung out lost soles who he could help but wont, David your A despicable animal.
It was a pleasure to travel with you today and I wish you the best for the future !
See you !
I just discovered your blog. I have a condo overlooking the Mediterranean Sea in Sanary-sur-Mer and I would have loved to have you over for a drink. Maybe next time!…
Good stuff. Get well soon.
Hi Duncan,
I Just bought the DVD of A.K.A. Wonderfull made.. beeutifyll story.
Want to watch it tomorrouw again but then in de spilt version..
I will look for more films from your hand..
Thanks .. I had 2 nice hours..
Maybe Kristian Digby’s mother found it too soon and wished to grieve just as a family unit. And not have others, strangers taking part in her family’s grieving. Now as time moves on, his mothers feelings to a memorial may have changed. But maybe she and her family are concerned about people finding a memorial for Kristian, as a cause for speaking against the way he died and his sexual preference. If you wish to hold a memorial try involving his family in organising it, but if they still don’t want anything to do with it. Just do it, but do it respectfuly. Keep it quiet, don’t inform the media and inform people only by phone. Just arrange to meet in i.e. a park somewhere. With it being in an outdoor public area, no one can stop it from happening. I’m not sure if you have to inform the authorities. You could always do it as a flashmob
Do you need to have surgery for something? I just went thru a major surgery.
Thanks,
Theron Price
Camarillo, CA, USA
I’ve been searching for a dvd or something of the picture of Dorian Gray for almost two years now and I just can’t find it anywhere. That’s a real shame, ’cause it’s a movie I’d buy directly.
Anyone who can help: axietraxie@hotmail.com
Mr. Roy could you please remove my previous comment that disclosed my personal history. Originally, when I posted that comment; I wasn’t that tech savvy. I wasn’t aware that anyone in the world could “google” my personal life experiences. Thanks and much love to you, Che Coker.
Directors Guild of America, Inc. (DGA) has collected Foreign Levies for your film, “Method” (2004). You can find your name by following the following link and clicking on the text which reads “$50 or more in Accrued Levies” under “View” on that page. http://www.dga.org/ForeignLevies/NonMemberDirectors.aspx
Please establish contact using the information on the upper right of that page. Thank You, Jaret L. Johnston, Foreign Levies Supervisor for the Directors Guild of America, Inc.
Hi Duncan, I thought I’d drop you a comment as I can’t directly email you so here goes.
I read the article about you in the independent today ( http://tinyurl.com/9n9c4az ) and I was shocked and very surprised at your treatment in the US. Forgive my ignorance, I didn’t know who you were until an hour ago (I had to look you up on google to my shame) and I’ve just sat here in my little flat in Norwich, Norfolk, absorbing your blog, looking at the many pictures of handsome men and continued reading until my eyes hurt and my kettle calling me to make a cup of tea.
I’ve so far felt moved and reminded of my own experiences of being a gay man (now early 30′s, dead in gay years apparently but I don’t subscribe to that myself) with your musings and carefully worded thoughts.
I look forward to reading more in the future and I sincerely hope you get the justice you deserve for being held in prison for so long for what seems to be no good bloody reason.
Best Wishes !
Lew Hugh x x x
https://twitter.com/LewHugh
Kattnapp@gmail.com
Hey Duncan, great meeting you the other day at the Commissary. Check out my website http://www.paleolifestyle.com. I’d be honoured to help you achieve optimal health & fitness. Cheers
Dear Mr Roy,
My name is Rob Summers. My Aunt Freda Summers was married to Mr Kuros Khazaei. I think he was your father. I only ask because I’m doing a family tree.