I thought you might wanna see this:
BTW, for those of you who have recently started reading this blog and want to catch up with the Jake B/Duncan Roy ‘relationship’ fiasco….
Here is a quick recap:
I was a patient on Dr. Drew‘s Sex Rehab which aired on VH1. I admitted that I found straight men desirable and re-traumatized myself with straight cock.
After the show aired I had many straight men contact me with a view to having sex with them.
They were rebuffed.
Jake contacted me via Facebook, he presented himself as straight. He lived with his girlfriend of 7.5 years. He told me he was a literary agent, interested in publishing my blog (he wasn’t the only one) we met and became friends and I agreed that he rep me.
After getting to know each other and working together Jake then revealed that he was gay. Not straight or bi but full on gay. He sent me pictures of his penis and ass. He told me that he loved me. I was confused and greatly attracted. I was flattered.
I lived in LA…he lived in NYC. He skyped a great deal.
I genuinely thought that he would leave his girlfriend for me. That’s what he said. I made it PERFECTLY CLEAR that I wanted nothing to do with him if he did not tell his girlfriend Jessie the truth…in fact, I forced him to tell her that he was gay.
He was petrified that I would out him.
He finally told her the truth. She, quite rightly, threw him out of their house.
He then started a sexual odyssey that did not include me…even though he called every day and accepted an expensive vacation to the South of France.
So, whoever it is (we can guess) that continues to send anonymous notes insinuating that I am somehow responsible for the Jake situation…go fuck yourself. Jake is fully responsible for not just ruining his ex girlfriends life by lying to her for the past 7.5 years but also busting his way into mine.
I insisted that he tell the truth.
I could just dump our entire email correspondence on here if you are interested in the chronology?
Why would you generalize by asking such an ignorant question? this is one gay relationship. It is no different than a hetero relationship. My ex lied, cheated, took money and trips from me all while apparently still being with his wife who he said he was divorced from. It happens every day whether you are gay, straight, bisexual, or transgender. People who want more than one sexual partner feel they need to lie to others.
Jake is obviously at fault as it was his idea to reach out to Duncan, to lie, and to seduce him. Not only that but lying to a woman who you have lived with that long is appalling on so many levels. More than her mental well being and right to be in an honest relationship what about the chances of him bringing home a STD or worse yet Aids from having anonymous encounters and who knows what else?
I think Jake continues to harass Duncan via the court system because he knows that Duncan will share that on his blog and he will get his 15 minutes of fame via Duncan even if that 15 minutes does nothing more than show him to be the douchebag that he is.
I don’t feel bad for Jake at all. He made his bed and now he needs to lie in it. It is his lies that have made such a mess for everyone around him.